Woman's Body

People lost their cool when Kim Kardashian posted another nude picture to her social media. (click here to check out the pic) Celebrities chimed in; fans praised Kim K, and others were just flat out rude. I want to know, why is it a surprise that she posted another nude picture? We have seen her naked plenty of times, and heck her launch to fame started off of a sex tape. I don't see an issue with it because well I LOVE the woman's body. It is beautiful, it is strong, and it has plenty of stories to tell from lying about orgasms to scars from an ex to its remarkable recovery rate from creating another human inside of it.

You have to invest your money in other areas besides beauty. Most people see the exterior of the Kardashians, their ridiculously long-running reality show that has NO SUBSTANCE and assume that things are handed to them. What they do not see, is the hard work, dedication, sleepless nights, long hours, days missed with friends and family to be on the road to stay relevant and rich. There is always more than what meets the eye; which is why I stopped judging celebrities and how they live.

There are ways for women to be heard, make a career, find love, have money and live happily ever after without showing their entire bodies. Yes, this is true. We also need to take into consideration, that some people don't have that luxury of having other outlets. So for those women, they do turn to being naked and using their assets to make their way. I don't mind either hustle, as a woman I can understand, but I can not relate to that path. I won't point a finger or judge because I don't know what it's like to walk in those shoes. All I know is that you have to do what you have to do.

Women are so hard on each other the most; it's a sad thing to see and read. We preach equality, rights and a bunch of other things. When someone is happy and embracing their sexuality i.e. Rihanna,  Kim Kardashian, Amber Rose, Pamela Anderson, Tyra Banks, Chrissy Teigen, those women get dragged to hell, WHY? Sexuality is a great thing, it's a beautiful thing, and the woman's body is incredible. It's okay to talk about sex, use sex, say you enjoy sex, express yourself, show your body, hide your body, keep quiet, or be loud.. TO EACH THEIR OWN. If you don't like what these women post, then stop looking.

The older I get, the more I understand Britney Spears' 2007 meltdown. Live your life and focus on yourself instead of hating on the next woman who made it, is making a way, or determined to be somebody

-Ebony

Matters of the Heart (Guess What? No One Else Matters)

Luke 12:34 : For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. 

I was having a conversation with my best friend and we were discussing certain matters of the heart, feelings and acting on certain emotions. The heart is a tricky thing, when listening to it you have to be very careful, much like the verse in Matthew  15:19 states: For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies it can also help in the way of following the scripture of Like 12:34. Depending on what you are listening too the heart can lead you astray from the correct matters at hand. 





So question of the day! "What do you do when your heart is pulling you in a direction that you never pictured coming?" 

Personally I acted on this emotion, something new came my way when my mind was on something else. When this person came into my life I read more into it because we've known each other for so long I just assumed that something was meant to come out of this. So naturally what do I do? I follow those instincts, and boy did it lead me in a world of trouble. BUT I believe it was necessary;  because I learned so much about me as a person, a woman and what one should receive and give. It was painful, hurtful and overbearing at times but thank God it was over.  

Second question of the day!" What do you do when your heart is beating hard for someone but you just got out a relationship?" 


Ahh I read this question over and over again. I'm not going to lie I didn't even want to touch on this but you want it so here ya go. Life is short and is meant to be shared with others.

Lesson- those that are only meant for a season 

Blessing- those that are meant to be around for a long while


NOW you have to learn which people are a lesson or a blessing.PERFECT EXAMPLE! Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. People dog her because of her sex tape and because shes pregnant and still technically legally married. Now I like the Kardashians (like not love them) and truth is people don't know the situation but yet everyone has an opinion  Do you think that's stopping her? With everything she reads, hears sees on TV about her and what she faces every day the girl is still happy in her heart and with the one she wants to be with. In live you have to take shit, but as long as you don't listen to the haters you'll be fine. \

I'm still figuring out which people go to which category, but as I continue to life my life I realize that God does his work, and he will point them out in due time. So the best thing I would say is follow what makes you happy. Sure if you are fresh out of a relationship some people might pass judgement BUT truth is, who cares, they won't be taking care of you, only you and possibly that other person if things end up right. 

I had some more great questions, but I will answer them directly since they added names lol. I'm not a psychic or the one to go to about love. All I can speak on is my experience and release what God tells me to share when I ask him these questions. So with that being said, hope it helps! :)